For women, having sex for the first time must be taken seriously and seriously. Such as gaining an intellectual understanding of male and female bodies, sexual desire, and responses to sexual excitement.
During the first sexual intercourse, a woman’s hymen may rupture, followed by a slight pain and even a small amount of bleeding. If the hymen is thin, elastic and easy to open, or if the hymen is underdeveloped and has ruptured due to exercise, women will not experience pain or bleeding during first sexual intercourse. According to the survey results of male foreigners, about 50% of women have no pain or bleeding during sexual intercourse for the first time.
For men, don’t be too eager for the first sexual intercourse. Push the penis into the vagina. The harder it goes, the more impulsive and anxious it becomes. The more impulsive and anxious it becomes, the harder it is to insert it, but women sweat in pain. This approach is very wrong.
For the first time, both men and women should pay attention to some things. Especially for women, if the first time leaves a very bad impact on themselves, it is also easy to cause sexual phobia, which is medically called “vaginismus”.
So What Should A Man And A Woman Do For The First Time?
1.The Man Should Have Gentle Foreplay As A Foreshadowing.
The man should not be eager to enter the first time. If there is no foreplay, it will not be easy to enter. This will also make women feel pain. Therefore, the man must have certain foreplay skills to arouse the girl’s body, which is very important for the entire sexual process.
2. Pay Attention To The Hygiene Of Reproductive Organs
For the first time, both parties should clean their reproductive organs, especially the male’s, because dirt is easy to hide under the male’s glans. If it is not cleaned, it is easy to bring these unclean things into the female body, which can easily cause gynecological problems. disease.
3.Prevent Inflammation Of Damaged Hymen
After the hymen ruptures, there will be some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. Wash it with warm water and wipe it with clean cotton wool or paper towels. It is best to wait 2-3 days before having sex to prevent wound inflammation. If your hymen is ruptured, bleeding a lot, and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical attention. This chance is uncommon.
Reminder: Sometimes because a woman’s hymen is thick or the hymen hole is too small, or the man’s sexual intercourse is rough, heavy bleeding may occur after the hymen is torn. The most severe cases not only cause large tears in the hymen, but also cause lacerations on the walls of the labia minora, leading to massive bleeding. Then, when this situation occurs, you should seek medical treatment promptly
4.Treat Premature Ejaculation Correctly
During sexual intercourse for the first time, the man may ejaculate prematurely due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual intercourse failure. You should forgive this situation. This is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal.
5.Take Good Contraceptive Measures
If a man and a woman do not want to have a baby right away and do not take birth control pills, both the couple will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant, so she will not be able to concentrate highly and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate, and achieve satisfactory results in their sexual life.
6.Sweet Communication
Before sex, both parties may be embarrassed, especially women, who may have complicated thoughts. At this time, the man can say sweet words to comfort the woman. Having two atmospheres is a good choice to start with.
